Corri: You know, coincidencly I've actually read that book (along with Men Who Can't Love) and saw myself in *alot* of it. Unfortunately, like most self-help books, it's a lot better at identifying the problem, than coming up with workable solutions.

Maybe the detactment/acceptance thing is the best I can do right now. But (see below) while it does help to a certain extent, there are definitely cracks in my facade, when all my bottled-up rage and sadness explode.