Quote: Hey Frank sorry for this post but I dont give a F@ck what any C says or anbody. You HAVE to have goals and dreams.
I didn't say that one shouldn't have goals and dreams. I'm talking about the abstract concepts of your FEELINGS about your goals and dreams. I have goals. I expect to construct another company, repair my family and become rich and famous. But not neccesarily in that order.
Quote: Dreams and goals about the future is what life is all about. I will cry myself to sleep dreaming of a future with my wife and kids until it ends by her pen before I will EVER follow what your C said regard not looking toward the future.
And I will too. The concept is not WORRYING and LIVING in the future. The constant 'what if's?'. You should get this better than a lot of people because you are very good at being in the 'present'. I rarely see you project yourself into a future that seems hopeless. You are usually in the present.
Read beyond the words I wrote, we're talking about abstract concepts.
Quote: It would suprise me if you were not like me in this reagrd but again maybe I missed something big that part of the post.
Then you don't need to be surprised. You and I are similar in this regard. The conversation was abut perceptions of our realities and how some of us base our reality on our past, and some base it on our PERCEIVED futures.
