Hey Frank, I just went through your threads. I remember reading them when I was overseas. Our sitches are a bit similar. We still live at home except that W has filed for D already and it will be final at the end of April. She said same line to me about she is sure that she wants a divorce. She has made comments...maybe 2-3 about looking for an apt. Haven't heard anything about finding one or actually going out and looking for one. I'm rambling....sorry.
I feel like I'm on a fence trying to balance also. I 180 frequently and am in contact with W daily at home. No ML or anything even remote close to a kiss since I left in Sept. She had told friends before I came back that she was going to wait til I got back about a divorce...well, to a certain extent , she was right...4 days! Then the BIG D!....For me, it seems like I have the plague or herpes or something....she is very careful not to rub up against me or have to walk TO near me.....it is like she is afraid to get near me, if you know what I mean. I have not had a peck on the cheek or anything since I got back. She automatically starting sleeping in D12's room the first night I got back. It's like if she touches me or kisses me or anything to that extent...she may change her mind????
