I must apologize to you. I've been posting on your thread out of my desire to see you pull through this, and I thought offering your Ws perspective might be helpful, even as a reminder when we're so red with frustration. I feel so badly now, because I am afraid that you might think that I am blaming you, or telling you that you deserve this. YOU DO NOT.
I do not assume that you don't understand your W, her perspective. I do not assume that you are not a good H, that you have not worked hard to help you and your M.
You have phenomenal patience and grace. Again, I apologize if I was insensitive or offensive in any way.