Oh, and I never thought she was 'stupid'. just normal. I'm not normal and I never will be. I'm sure she doesn't 'mean to' hurt me or the kids, but she IS and she KNOWS she is. What kind of coward does that?
Answer: One I won't be married to. I never saw her for the weak person she is. Maybe this was really supposed to be MY opportunity to get rid of HER and I haven't been seeing it clearly. I wonder how many of us on the DB board stay blinded for a long time? What's our life worth?
I'm sorry for those of you who thought I was pretty ok guy. It's all B.S. because I'm really a self centered selfish jerk. I'm taking ME away from her. She is going to get what she says she wants. Then she can be 'happy'. I can afford a lawyer, too bad she can't.