Quote: We can always redefine 'winning' to suit our situation. If winning means to get divorced and then move on to a new life with a broken family in the hopes that it will be a happier life, then I'm winning!
Good Lord! That's sarcasm at it's finest, Frank! Good job! (See I'm good, too! )
No. When I say 'win' I mean our marriages are restored.
You need to pull out of this nose-dive you are in.
It ALWAYS, ALWAYS will get worse before it gets better.
You need to get your focus OFF of HER and back ONTO your GROWTH. You can't help her, really.
You are THE consummate "fixer". Rein it back in, Frank.