the long walk home in pieces.

[Becca1975]

STOP! Just stop it! She can plan all she wants, doesn't mean she won't change her mind a dozen times before she figures out what is right.

I had this conversation with my therapist last week about H's cousin "J" and what a bad influence he is. I blame J for many of our problems because H worships the ground he walks on. My C brought up a good point, J can be all the bad influence he wants, in the end, it is H that makes his own decisions. J isn't forcing him to do anything. If H chooses to follow whatever path J leads him on then that is H's fault, not J's.

You take a deep breath. You are doing SO VERY WELL, you are not failing. There are going to be ups and downs. Remember the rollercoaster of when you first started this, this is nothing compared to that! This is just one more test....don't let it get to you.