the long walk home in pieces.

[Becca1975]

It isn't that I have become her slave, doing everything she ever asks. It's knowing what's important and when to say no.

Exactly. When my H talks of men who do as you do right now, he refers to them as being P*ssy whipped or whatever. He doesn't even realize that it is just a loving thing to do. It has nothing to do with being a slave or giving in to the demands of another, it is loving that person and giving to them because you love them. I pray that my H will learn what you have learned.