Well, end of the day catch up. I think I log too much. I took what Amy said to heart and focused on getting work done, and doing my best to have faith that the rest of the world will take care of itself, including my wife.
W saw counselor today but hasn't said anything about it. She seemed in an ok mood.
We went to a little play our D10 was in at the school. W sat next to me and was very pleasnt to be with but not flirty. A couple we know sat in front of us, they know about our divorce situation. The guy said 'hey, you're looking good' because I've lost 20 lbs. I said 'yeah, I know you will aspire to look like me since I am so good looking!". W had a laugh. Then the Guy friend said he had quit his job and was now a 'consultant'. He hated the people he worked for and was now much more relieved. Then W chimes in and says "Frank did the same thing, he became a consultant so he didn't have to work for people he didn't like". That was interesting that she said that, I took it as 'bragging'. Maybe reading too much into it.
Later this evening she was sitting onthe couch watching TV. I sat on it also, and since her feet were near me I looked at her at one point and she looked at me, then her feet, then smiled. So of course I offered to massage her feet. Which I did for about an hour. The TV shows ended and it was late so we said our 'good nites' and went to our rooms. She also mentioned that she was getting back on her diet again and was having trouble because we have boxes of Girl Scout cookies in the house.
Hey, at least she can't give me grief that it's MY fault for bringing junk food into the house. In fact she hasn't had anything about me to complain about in a while.
I have been maintaining my detached friendlyness that seems to attract her, and she feels comfortable. It had an effect last time we got close. It's a silly game we play.
I sure wish I knew her thought processes that caused he to go alien this week.
