Quote: Umm Frank? Is it that time of the month for her? That is when I get to where i don't want to be touched at all. Or maybe reality has hit and she has realized you might be touching someone else too.....since after all, you ARE getting D, right? Those are the two reasons why "I" wouldn't want to be touched.
No, it is not that time of the month. We were very touchy - feely last week and intimate. She went to her friends saturday nite to sunday and came home slightly angry and not wanting me near her. When she left on Saturday she gave me a kiss but seemed a little aprehensive - like she thought I was going to be needy without her.
When she returned, I hugged HER after she ignored me. SHe hugged back but that's all the contact we had. She only talked about how SHE had to do a better job of taking care of her own emotional needs and not getting them filled by being with me. I think it was more of an "I don't need you" statement.
Now I don't know WHAT to do. She had told me Thursday it was ok for me to 'touch' her and she'd say no if she didn't want me to. She seemed very happy then.
Now, she gives off a 'do not touch me' energy around her.
The couple times I did last nite were innocent enough, I put my head on her shoulder while standing behind her, and I tickled her when we were joking about something and I didn't get my head bit off for it but I also didn't get much response either.
This morning I rubbed her shoulders and was told in no uncertain terms she didn't NEED to be rubbed anywhere.
She knows I'm not 'touching someone else too' because I've been aroud the past couple weeks due to the attention she has been showing me. I've also told her I don't want anyone new because I don't want the problems that come with it.
