Seperated only five weeks, certain that it was entirely due to my DBing that it was so short. He dropped the bomb saying it was over for good and moved out leaving me in shock like I'd been run over by a bus. He's been back 3 wks and it's kind of like he never left. Still don't know what happened but hope to get the the bottom of it in MCing He had given me the I'm not in love with you anymore speech. Not sure what the future holds yet but he does think we are reconciled and has already planned and booked our family vacation in August. I'm sure I'm just on the MLC rollercoaster but still DBing like crazy and it really seems to get me results so far.
Best of luck with your sitch. I know it's hard to stay positive. I have a pity party for myself on a regular basis but as long as it's not in front of your Spouse it's OK.
