DavidM, Hi you posted to my sitch a while back. I wish you luck and keep up the faith. It took my STBXW moving out before I saw the first signs of any emotion from her, I'm talking the day after and she asked me to stay with her and the kids that night. I see now i may have been played because my D will be done Fri. (She forgot to tell me the date was this soon. Just told me I needed to sign for papers).Thats how I ended up here. I wish you the best and dbing works to some extent. It's helped me deal with alot of issues i've had buried for along time. Deano
