Sorry for your situation. Unfortuntely, I'm sure you will find a pretty small percentage of success stories as far as reconciling. You'll find a larger percentage of people on here who have still grown a lot through this process. Personally, I'm almost two months into the reconciliation with my XW after being divorced 6 months and I can honestly say that I'm not unhappy that it took separation and divorce to get to this point. It was a period of growth for me.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
