It's hard for me because it seems counterproductive to what I'm hoping will transpire. It aint sexy. It's not all that attractive. It's so...clinical sounding to me.

Plus, my people pleasing H would *every time* say Oh whatever you want. Hmph.

However, our R would be in a healthier and happier place right this very moment if I had fought against that tendency to say nothing, so there ya go.