Say this is something that's been on my mind too. We had an absolutely rockin week last week. ML every day. Then this week, nuthin. It is confounding and disappointing but I think part of the problem is that we both pussyfoot around the Topic early in the evening and then finally drag ourselves to bed, where we may or may not stay awake for the final event. (well, I'M awake but you get what I'm saying)
How easy it would be if one of us were to say, the first time we think of it--which let's be honest, we both are--"should we head to bed and have some us time, or stay up and watch the movie, or both?"
IOW, communicate. Stop avoiding the Topic and hoping that we're on the same page.
I can guarantee that if I'd spoken up ANY of the last 6 or so nights, we'd have ML. I hate doing this and I know he does too, so here we are..going thru a drought. Seems stupid now that you talked about your own sitch.
My advice: Talk early and often.
Glad you had a good night; that makes everything seem much more do-able doesn't it!
