Quote: I think I now have him understanding (especially with our recent developments) that if we make time for "US" earlier (I'd say by 9pm) then we can both relax the rest of the evening happy campers...and we have enough energy to do what we want.
I hear you, and one thing that's definitely "in the plan" for us is to "camp out" in the bedroom more often instead of in front of the TV, but the "US" time, for now, has to be scheduled for AFTER 9:30 when S14 goes to bed, but 10:00 is definitely do-able (as last night showed...).