With a tip o' the hat to Chrome for the idea I thought I'd get opinions on good music to ML by. I'll start the ball rolling.
Anything by Sade
Principles of Lust by Enigma
What can I say? A woman with an accent really does it for me... Just thought I'd have some fun 24 hours before our surgically induced 6 week nookie moritorium.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
Good luck with the procedure, you and W will be in my thoughts.
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
My favorite: Basia, and my favorite album of hers is "Time and Tide." Introduced to her by that devil woman who my GF between ex-W and current Ms.Hdog, who spoiled me forever.
Unfortunately the W doesn't like Enigma. Come to think of it, maybe it is BECAUSE it is sensual and she is basically against sensuality that she objects to it.
(ramble alert on) I'm not sure why I fight so hard for my R. We have nothing (other than our children) in common. From musical taste to activities to appreciation for the arts, appreciation for sports, etc we are so very, very different.
But she does like fishing and will bait her own hook (in my best Bill Murray voice) so I've got that going for me...
(ramble alert off)
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
Well, I would post everything tha I want to ML to, but the list would be so long it would probably crash the SSM server. LOL
Foreplay songs "Flames" by VAST "A Message" by Coldplay "I'll take you on" by Howie Day "Bend and Break" by Keane "Your body is a wonderland" by John Mayer "In your eyes" by Peter Gabriel "Here without you" by 3 Doors Down "Sadeness" by Enigma (could move down to other list) "You and Me" by Lifehouse "Lady in Red" by can't remember his name right now "Kissing a Fool" by George Michael "Only Time" by Enya
IC songs (gotta have that beat ) "I like to move it" by Bang Gang "Dare" by Gorillaz (if this song doesn't scream raw hot sex, nothing does) "Can't get you out of my Head" by Kylie Minogue "I like the way you move" by Outkast "Pon de Replay" by Rihanna "I can't help falling in love" by UB40
and on and on ...
Of course this is only hypothetical. This is one thing I haven't convinced the W of yet. I'm thinking as the kids get older, I'll be able to convince her to put some music on to cover up the wild thrashings and screamings she will be doing.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
Just thought I'd have some fun 24 hours before our surgically induced 6 week nookie moritorium. 
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