I guess what I had in mind was further back in his FOO, say, from his parents. That is where he could have gotten the self deprecating ideas, the low esteem, which opened the door for those types of thoughts. I still thank that a man with higher self esteem, strong self identity would look a woman who tried to tell him sex was dirty and think she was off her rocker. I haven’t run across any men who think like that, so I’m thinking that if I was with a woman who told me sex was dirty, I would bounce it off other men, who would probably tell me she was nuts. I can’t see how a thought like that can take over someone’s thinking who already was a secure idea of what sex is all about.
So he must not have had strong, healthy preformed ideas, or he already had warped ideas. Both of those would have predated his first wife. Just how I see it.
