Holy Cow and Shazam is right!!!!!!!!! You go girl...IMHO, listen to the voice that says just go with the flow!

Anyway, I attempted to take a page out of your book .... and asked hubby if he would like a BJ last night. We were flirting a little bit so I thought I'd go for it. He said, "NO!"...and not a "No hunny, I'm just not in the mood." It was a "No" that screamed, "What are you, nuts?"
So, I tried to be like, your loss, not mine. And mumbled something to the effect that I have never heard of a guy turning down a BJ. So, that escaladed into a little arguemnt about him just not being in the mood and me saying, well all you have to do is lay there and enjoy it. I know I probablly didn't handle this the right way, but being turned down twice in one week is a blow to the ego.

Happy Friday,
Nicky

"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'" Frederick Collins