Actually...at the time it had a great deal to do with not trusting my H. That was around the time I made the comment about him having to get ok with us being siamese twins....and well, he wouldn't have been able to take the time to go with us.
However...it does also have to do with the fact that I recognize that we need to be doing things together....period....for quite some time. Just the other night I made the comment to him that I'm no longer going to be "Ok" with us having anniversaries, birthdays, vacations....etc where there is absolutely no intimate contact, no sex.....when we have made the time to be alone and don't have our son in the same room with us. Yes guys, I didn't have sex on my honeymoon, granted I was 7mo pregnant but still....also didn't have it on my 1st or 2nd anniversary. No more. Not happening anymore. We'll be having our 3rd in May.....that pattern better be broken.
