Personally, I'm not all that fond of that position myself because as you said....you kind of feel alone up there LOL....but I usually manage to ummmm...occupy myself?
BTW...my H thanked me again yesterday when I got home from the office for "last night", and even told me that someone "at work" told him BJ's are commonly referred to among the "younger crowd" as goodnight kisses. I haven't heard that one before but I told him I'd be happy to use that terminology if he was more comfortable with it, just as long as we both knew what I meant when I said it to him, or he said it to me.
Naturally after everything I've gone through lately when he said that to me my mind went "yeah sure, the guys at work said that's what the kids are calling it." Now, it's possible someone at work did say that, but it's also possible someone he chatted with online referred to it that way. That's what happenes when you shatter trust in an R, everything said is suspect and runs through my BS-ometer.
BUUUUUUT, I digress....he did freely talk about it with me, and in fact was the one to initiate the conversation; it obviously made a big impression on him.
Also....still no suspicious activity on the computer and no suspicious activity on the cell phone since the A-Bomb.
Oh & Fran...I am so bummed but because of everything going on right now I didn't feel right taking my trip with my friend next month to London without my H. I hated having to cancel it...but something tells me it's not going anywhere anytime soon.
