You go!! Maybe I'll mail you one of those hats with the beer holders for you Anniversary. Just kidding. Don't mind these testosterone crazed lugs - you are an amazing woman and your H is very lucky to have you.
I need to take a page out of your book and just say it straighforwardly. "The Fine Art of Erotic Talk" by Bonnie Gabriel is a great resource. It gives wonderful suggestions for things to say that are intimate but not necessarily x-rated, things to say that pack a little heat and on up the scale. Lots to try for the shy and for those who aren't - it is great too.
