Yeah I never pictured you as a prudish person. More of the zesty fiesty type.
Again I feel that once your H comes to a place where he feels secure with his own sexual skin and that you will except him in his sexual skin. You two will be in a much better place.
Once my H realized it was his lying and hypocrispy over the porn and MBing issues being the issue and not his actual behavior that I would not tolerate. It has no longer been a issue. (of course the public lambasting of me about porn on the computer that had nothing to do with me really was the last straw that made me really address the issue). H now does not hide the fact he watches porn when I am not around he also does not deny he MB's with our with out me present. And I have no problem with either thing.
And I am sure if my H and I can deal with this issues you and your H will ace them with time.
