You are absolutely correct. I have no problem with his viewing porn as long as it's not to the exclusion of me. Right now I do have a problem with it...because he needs to learn to deal with ME. My biggest problem is with the deception, the lying, and the continued charad of "working on our issues" at the MC's.
What I am trying to get across to him right now, is this....there is very little, sexually speaking, that he could ask for that would shock or disgust me. Sure, I do have my boundaries as to what I would do, but being who I am...it would be very difficult to actually shock or disgust me.
Lying to me & deceiving me however, I will not tolerate.
