I still do not believe he has or had an addiction. My gut still tells me it was more of an avoidance tool, not so much an addiction. As long as he used that method to have his needs met....it was much easier to avoid me. Remember too that getting his needs met on the internet was completely non committal....those people couldn't hurt him. If someone didn't respond to an e-mail, it was no big deal....he didn't take that as rejection.....it was safe for him, wrong, but safe.
There's lots more to this, but I do believe his sexual avoidance goes way back.....and has had something to do with the women he's chosen throughout his life....and I'm absolutely sure, he's contributed to the demise of his past R's as well....whether or not those women were controlling (or whatever).
