Quote: Yes, but the fact is you still DO-- even with a woman who treats you like cr@p... how do you explain that when my bf DOESN'T want to even with a woman who treats him like a king?
Yes, but your bf is probably happier to be in a relationship with you than HD is to be married to his wife. People generally want to be in relationships with people who are generally nice to them but they don't generally want to f*ck people because they are nice. Having sex with his W is win-win situation ego-wise for HD and a lose-lose situation for your bf ego-wise at the moment. Of course, being b*tchy isn't really a solution to your problem because though it might make your bf want to f*ck you in defense of his ego, it would also make him not want to be in a relationship with you.
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