Just read about what happened. I have been off the board for a bit with about a 100 things going on. I am so sorry to hear about what you found out. I can say I know how you feel. I to had caught my husband at that same site.
The one thing that really concerns me about what your husband did was that he actually paid to use this site. So he was paying to get all the benefits from it like e-mail, etc. My husband was registered and had a bio and everything. But he never paid for the site. I think I would have really lost it. Also it concerns me that he was actually e-mailing women for a date. I know it sounds like you are on top of everything and being cautious. Just continue to do so would be my advice. It just really concerns me that he had a woman e-mailing that lived so close by. He could have deleted e-mails that you never got a chance to read. Or made phone calls at work. It don't cost anything for someone to have sex with someone else. So maybe if this woman was also married they could have been very secretive about things. I don;t want to make you worry more then you have been. It just really concerns me he took it as far as he did. Also just be prepared that he may be giving you the kind of attention you want right to blow things over more quickly. That is what my husband did after I foind out. But he wernt right back to the way he was. Right now your hu8sband probably feels like he has a whole lot of making up for what he did.
Big (((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) to you. Again I am sorry to hear about this.
