Wow - I am really glad to hear it. I don't think you should avoid sex with your H. I think you should do it if and when it is right for you. I don't think you should compromise your own integrity doing it - sounds like you didn't. Good for you. Mr. Gel is a lunkhead but you love him and it is for you and no one else to decide how to approach the issue.
I would love to know what my H really wants - he has never really said. I do suspect that he has a kinky side (when I say kinky I mean just regular kink nothing obscure). Boy, wouldn't I love the explore that.
