LD men--Do they really exist?

[blackfoot]

What I mean is that a man's self image is 50-90 % derived from sex

It is? Crap. No wonder I am a failure as a man..... does that mean I have to be a woman now? wait, what about the fact that when you reject a woman sexually it completely blows her self worth as being a woman? Hmmm I get rejected so often----- no, I cant be a woman either.
<thinking> I GOT IT. I am David Bowie.

excellent.

So effectively, you HD ladies blow holes in the theory that relational issues bring a ladies libido down. Either that or HD women operate in a different environment.

NO and no. I think this whole attraction thing it kinda of like seeing the Great Wall of China from Space. You can see it with the Nakid eye, IF you know where to look . If your myopic, have astigmatism, cross eyed, or just in general keep looking in africa instead of asia, or refuse to open your eyes, well you just arent ever going to see it.

maybe LD they get a negative self image from sex?

maybe they (LDM? vary rare. true freak of nature.) choose to not be controlled-- or at least try --by something that is so completely wanted, even driven, but not truly a need.

There are HD women on these boards that have BIG time relational issues with their LD husbands and yet they REmaIN HD. This goes AGAINST the popular theory that relational issues (too vague, undefined.) are the cause of low libido. In theory, the HD women on these boards should be LD! The only thnig I can figure is that they are still HD because their hormones TELL them to be HD.

In whose theory? HP, karen, lfl are all LD everytime the relationship turns in a direction that would cause them to be. I understand exactly why and what is causing these "HD" ladies to be so.

Any other guy out there, who doesnt understand this? but thinks they can if it was explained differently and has confidance they can do something about it? Id be interested to see how a positive, action based person would word this same question.

No promises that I will be able to explain it any better, or differently then I have in the past. Ill give it a shot though. I like a challenge.

also to repeat. knowing doesnt change the action/reaction-interaction. Behaviors do.

Cemar, cant have your reality, messing up REality, as seen by the lurkers.
Your head banging used to make me wince. Now I just want to reassure the spectators, that No, there is nothing to worry about here.