Hmm, sounds like S2. He's figured out how to undo the crib tent now. His middle name is undoubtedly Houdini. He's also a climber, and has been since a week after he learned to walk (at 9 mos). Fear is not in his vocabulary.
HP, To head off on a tangent. We have friends whose youngest daughter was a climber. We joked they were the only people we knew who needed cabinet locks on the upper ones. She has three older brothers and has shown the ability to deal with anything they throw at her. We now say she will be the only linebacker in school who plays with Barbies.
Scott
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
Scott, we gave up on the cabinet locks. S2, aka Houdini can get them open faster than we can. He's also figured out how to get out of his crib tent, first by working the zipper out of its pocket, then after we safety pinned the zipper he's figured out how to get out without unzipping it at all (we still haven't figured out his trick on that one, and he won't do it when we're in the room). Whatever his trick, he's quick enough at it that we can close the door and come back 30 seconds later and he's already out. S2 is a climber too, and has been since he learned to walk at 9mos. Worst part is he's teaching his tricks to S1.
Man, how can a guy that has had sex 3 times since last november be considered a sex maniac? Hold my wife, I wish. Remember, my wife puts physical touch REAL low on her priorities. What are her needs? She wants a man that is just there, somewhere in the room, just not touching her. Basically she wants an asexual man. She wants money, and material things, financial security, and most of all, someone that is willing to accept her as she is, fridgid. She wants someone who at the age of 46, should realize that sex is in the past. She wants a NO maintenance man. I think a LD or asexual man would be perfect for her.
What is HD or LD? I think now that it has more to do with how do you want EC. If you get your EC primarily from sex and affection, you are probably HD. If you get EC from something like communication or quality time, you are probably LD. I would bet that there are NO LD/ND people on here that get their EC primarily from sex/affection.
Where does you husband get his primary fix for EC from?
What about those people that beieve that sex does not even have to be part of a relationship? There are a ton of women out there that would be HAPPY if they never had sex again even in a GOOD relationship. Put my wife in that bucket.
FWIW....I don't think he has an actual addiction as you think he may. I've talked to my C again since last week....and told her some of his very recent behaviors towards me. She's leaning more towards the whore/madonna thing.....but still, as you said....his online activity still would have had really nothing to do with me.
He goes to speak with her tonight himself....we'll probably know more after that.
