Lass, Fwiw, I don't think his online behavior has anything to do with you. Nothing. It seems to me that he has a compulsion..addiction..whatever..for hard core stuff and doesn't yet realize that this is incompatible with M. I think he will come to many painful and necessary realizations with counseling and I'm praying that he will be able to fashion a more balanced view of sexuality. Hang in there, lady!
I agree with you girls, btw, about the 'sexy' behavior. None of my behavior is overtly or inyerface sexy. It's all subtle but, shoot, these guys are smart...they know when they are being nagged even if the 'nagging' is something that most guys would give their eye teeth for. No one likes to be constantly coming up short and I'm sure it reminds him that he isn't keeping up. Which is NOT my intention!
