Ya know, the only clue he has consistently given is that he is turned on by what he can't have. The thought that "it" is always available doesn't exactly make him salivate, know what I'm sayin.
I haven't figured out how to incorporate any hard to get stuff into my life, in an authentic way. If I just started acting hard to get, he'd laugh at me (yes I've tried it and yes this is what he did) and proceed with what he was doing. However, if I'm mad at him or something...some changeup in our routine that suggests that he truly doesn't have easy access to the bits, well, then he becomes focused on me.
Btw, we looked into ME in April but H said that he's not leaving the kids all weekend. Maybe in the fall.
