HP,
Hmm, or maybe your efforts are not quite right to him, either too over the top or not hitting on the right trigger or too ordinary or too 'out there' or maybe it seems like too big a hill to climb or whatever. Nobody can answer that other than him. Not only that, but I bet the answer is completely different on different days. Despite what Dr Laura says, I don't think we Men are quite so simple that all you need to do is blink your eyes and wiggle your a$$ to have us chasing you around the room. The only way you'll understand him is to get inside his head, and the only way to do that is to improve your intimate communication, which is where the WWME techniques can help. HP, I think you are already on that path of your communications becoming more intimate (I and don't mean explicit, I mean initimate as in getting to know each other's secret thoughts). The farther I get down the path, the more I am convinced that intimate communication is THE key to the marriage puzzle. If only there was a download cable that we could plug into our S's head....