Some guys do have sex just for the physical pleasure. I am one of those that has sex for BOTH the physical pleasure and the EC. It is my PRIMARY way of EC. The problem is that I know my wife does NOT EC with sex, and I wonder if many ND women can EC with sex. My guess is that most do not. I know that when I have sex with my wife, her actions and words make me believe that she is completely focused on our orgasams,she is focused on the physical, when the REAL point of sex is the eyes wide open type of sex, it is about the meeting of MINDS. Sex is the ULTIMATE form of vulnerability when done CORRECTLY. I have to say that my wife and I have sex, but we never make love. She does not even grasp the concept.
