yes yes now we're getting somewhere. I believe that an LD woman can successfully suppress her D because she is driven by so many factors and not primarily T.
A man, otoh, is so strongly driven by T that: Can he really suppress this?
I say no.
I say he just finds other ways to deal with it.
I think my H, in our starvation days, got really frickin mean and had a lot of wet dreams. And occasionally mbated. I'm basing this on his current behavior, looking back. I don't ever think he was LD except in the behavioral sense.
The environment...well, it explains some of it...but still you've got guys like Chrome who grew up in a repressive home, in the South where those things just aren't talked about, with low self esteem, I mean he's the poster boy for potential LDH and here he is, horny as can be. Not even twins and a newborn can rein him in, LOL.
So what gives?
Why do some people rise above their environments and others don't?
I don't know but this has to be the most ridiculous thread ever.
