Quote: The mind can suppress drive for all the reasons mentioned, no matter how much T is flowing through our spouses' veins.
I suppose what my point is that, yes, they are suppressing their desire to *make love* but not to orgasm. They regularly mb, but don't come clean about this to their HDW's. To them they say things like "I just don't have a strong need for sex" etc etc.
I'm sure the LDW's do this too, but the fellas are doing it several times a week!!
How would the HDH's feel if they discovered their "I hate sex" wives were having a jolly good time by themselves and their anti-sex rhetoric only applied to sex with THEM.
My whole 'theory' which has more holes than swiss cheese, for sure, is that LD men are not un-horny, they just don't desire lovemaking with their wives. This is in direct contrast to the LDW's who truly aren't in the mood, most of the time.
Overall, I think there are more similarities with LDW's and LDH's (and HDW's and H's) but this is one glaring exception to me. That the guys are still having solo sex and lots of it. It's not an occasional thing..it's a regular part of their lives. They've just cut the wives completely out of it.
