HP the Oneida Religious Community, New York, 1848, ("male continence") John Humphrey Noyes, used this method as a form of birth control, also so men and women would not be in exclusive relationships or treat someone special, in their Group Marrage commune. But I agree with you in the bringing couples closer together line of thought.

how the R heads down hill every time one of the partners "slips" and has an "o".
Maybe if one person doeas not like sex that much or has trouble liking it and feels cheated out of not having an "O" when the OP has an "O" easily, might apply. Just speaking for my situation.

Karen1 on a previous post.
On an intilectual mode, please with draw that freak HDW comment. Although you say you do feel this way sometimes or some how, you also know that many people wish they had some of your HDness (women) and men wished their W's had more of what you have.

But I don't want to negate your feelings. Those are your feelings and they are not mine to say how you should feel. I do get the point that the situation is uncomfortable for you and creates questions that cause you to feel certain ways.

sometimes I "o" about 30 seconds into any kind of stimulation given the right atmosphere
Lucky Mr K1 but sad for the R because somethings are missing for both of you. Just saying lots of guys would love this, or something similar (3 to 15 minuets instead of after an hour, even years, or never). I know that does not solve any of your problem. Whish I had better answers for you and the other HDW/LDH situations.

Wish I hade been on the forum back in 1975. Reading about HD/LD shure would have solved some timing problems BB and I had.

Lou