What the heck...that is the whole *point* of having sex, isn't it? (well not always but you all get what I mean..)
I think it's ludicrous to take a fairly simple and straightforward act, such as ML, and try to twist it to be about deprivation. And then to spin it as something that's good for the R is even more lunacy.
It was created with a dual purpose: to reproduce obviously, and to bring couples closer. To tinker with the formula and avoid orgasm is pointless!
I'll bet I could become brothers-in-arms, so to speak, with my H if we both starting avoiding food, too, but what pleasure we'd be missing out on in the process!
I can't help but retort "there's gotta be a better way" when I read about stuff like this. I'd rather get close to him and feel gooooooood in the process than get close to him and be sexually frustrated.
