My H was never truly LD either, in a physical sense.
But many women are LD, from a physical sense, and remain so even if they have a tremendously satisfying sex life with their mate.
Why does this matter? It most probably doesn't, lol.
I am just thinking and ruminating on the intense amount of energy H must have put into subverting his sex drive. We used to go a month or more and now I can tell a difference in him within a few days..he is more tuned into me, more focused on me and I know that he's getting horny.
I am also thinking about what he told me during those times (I don't have sexual fantasies, I don't have sexual urges, etc) and even though I was hearing it from his own mouth, I doubted it. I believed it on the surface--what else could I do--but there was always a niggling voice in the back of my head, whispering to me that he was a normal guy.
