Corri, I don't think I'm explaining myself very well. Heck I can't even think of how to phrase my real question. I know that LD women masturbate but it is the frequency that I'm talking about. Dr. Sandra Pertot wrote a book about low libido that said something similar: The difference between the LD man and the LD woman is that the man is still taking care of himself frequently.
I guess it is something like this: Women who are LD are acting in a way that is congruous with their physical makeup. I'm sure they do mbate, even if they are telling their spouses they have no urges, for an urge to mbate is not the same as an urge to ML, for many many reasons.
But men who are LD are actually going against their physical makeup. Their bodies are producing T and they get urges but they go to great lengths to either subvert those urges, or they get rid of them rather quickly and alone.
IOW, an LD gal is doing nothing strange with respect to her physical makeup and urges.
I see the LD man as a sort of anorexic/bulemic. He still wants to eat, still has urges to eat, but either refuses or binges, alone.
I don't see the LD woman in the same way. She does not have an urge to "eat" every day, many many many times a day. Her urges are more fleeting, more subtle. Heck any woman's urges cannot compare to a man's, either in strength or duration or frequency. We are simply not wired that way.
It tends to screw with the HDW's mind to know that her husband has normal testosterone and her man has frequent urges, BUT they do not translate into action.
