Listen to Corri since you didn't catch what I was saying. When I said that the relational aspect is a part of HD and LD in women here is what I meant. In LD women (maybe men too) the quality of the R determines whether or not or how much sex they want. In HD women (and maybe men) the desire for relationship IS why they desire sex even when there are problems. Sexual resilience. Therefore, Cemar it is a personality thing moreso than a defective libido thing (once again, barring real medical issues).