Quote: The difference that I see between LD women and LD men is that the men are still masturbating--quite regularly, in fact.
So when the women say, "I'm just not interested in sex that much" there is a truth to what they say that is not there when you hear these words from an LDH.
I hate to say this, but I mb'd, and I'd say a lot of LDWs mb (at least more than we think). I discussed this with my shrink. What he told me was, my sex drive was normal, and it was a great indication that I had very healthy desires and urges (thank God).
If your H is mb'ing, or LDH men are mb'ing, I'd say it is a good indication that they are in fact normal, at least on a physical level. Good. The mb'ing as a substitute for sex is an indication of an emotional problem within the R that has nothing to do the act of sex itself.
