All of the conditions that people have described as causing LDness in men, like for example "Stress" are supposed to normally CAUSE more desire. I know they do for me. Men are suipposed to be in their element while having sex. What I mean is that a man's self image is 50-90 % derived from sex. Maybe it is that LD men don't get their self image from sex, or maybe they get a negative self image from sex?