Quote: I think the LDW exists, for sure. Women rely on outside sources, instead of hormones, for their sexual urges. When/if these outside sources wane, so does desire. Men's desire is regulated and constantly replenished by testosterone.
I think everyone here woefully miscalculates the effect that emotions have on desire, and "how" exactly, emotions interact with the chemicals of one's body.
I, quite honestly, think that 'emotions' by and large, are misunderstood, misapplied, and in general, are pushed aside in favor of logic analysis and mental reasoning.
I think just because a man has higher testosterone levels does NOT mean that he is not susceptible to the effects of his emotions, of his stress levels, and a variety of other things that he may be dealing with at the time.
That does NOT mean I don't think there is something present which must be addressed. But it sounds to me like you are applying a very negative intent to the LDH, much as the HDH's apply to their LDWs.
That application of 'negative' intent, from either side, is what I see to be the crux of the problem.... or a least a major contributor to the overall problem.
