Have you read 5LL book? Your husband sounds like he expresses love by giving gifts. Your rejection of his gift probably did hurt him more than you know. Try to find a way to patch that up. May require an R talk and why you felt hurt (and thus hurt him).
And you ask me what I want this year
And I try to make this kind and clear
Just a chance that maybe we'll find better days
Better Days... Goo Goo Dolls