Nice recovery. I am glad you were able to keep your focus. I am in the same situation were I am working on not basing my feelings on H's reaction to me.
You are farther ahead of me my H still has his wall up. It is difficult keeping myself out there and working on not being defensive. You sound so positive I will be great for about 2 days then I am a quivering mess. Any secrets to tell someone hoping to follow in your footsteps?
I would like to recommend a book I have been reading to deal with your communication issues. Couple Skills A guide to making your relationship work. The whole book is wonderful but even if you just read the chapter on comunication I think it will help you.
