I just remembered that H has a guest coming to town tomorrow night, he mentioned it to me when I asked last week and hasn't spoken of it since.
Normally, I would shop, do light cleaning, prepare for dinner, but he said don't worry, I'll take them out. But, since he has not said anything, should I go ahead and do the other things (clean, get ready). I know that H would rather die than tell me to do something (he's always been that way), but can resent when I don't help and he's super busy these days.
I don't want to shove myself on his plans and want to give him space...yet, it's my home too, and I feel uncomfortable hosting without doing anything. I know H has a busy day tomorrow.
I'll see if he tells me tonight, and then I'll volunteer for the bare minimum. The rest is up to him. I would love to be my normal self (hostess with the mostest), but don't want to go overboard with helping as to infringe on his space.
Ugh...why are silly things so freaking complicated?
