Oil man, I am going to work backwards. Quit smoking, only 25% smoke, so you are using it as a defense to keep people away. Question did she smoke too?
I am D now 2 yrs, she remarried 1 yr ago. I see her everyso often, at family functions. We have 3 kids.
And she acts like I don't exist. Hurts like hell. (Cathy can you explain this)
I decided I would treat the OM like my best friend. So I greet him like we long last friends. In fact last function him and talked for 10 mins. She did not speak to me at all. I normally say hi, but I was testing this time. I don't understand the ignoring part. I do know she keeps my occansion Ecard. I send one for birthday, mom day, and our anniv. I do not send anniv ecard, i send thinking of you ecard.
I am where you are, my dating has been not something I can put my heart in. I am 52, so I don't want kids. Most women below 47, have kids.
I was in a headed for marriage relationship and I started being controling. Killed it.
So I am taking a sabacical from dating.
I love my kids, and glad I had them. Unless you believe you and x want kids, move on. If she don't, then find a young divorcee, with a yound kid, and have more kids. She understands a good man. You have learn lessons that most men never know.
