Quote: Try this one on for size too. It seems like after these exchanges, my W really tries to, with her actions only of course, reassure me that things are ok. Does your W do that too.
Awww, absolutely. This in fact just occurred yesterday. In the a.m., I got a little upset with my W a bit and we started to argue, not about the R in particular, just some random BS...of course, all the arguing goes to one thing...basically she said some things, I said some things. I tolde her I didn't appreciate some of the comments, so forth and so on. Long story short, an hour later she hunts me down and gives me a hug and kiss. Later that night I get the TM's from work telling me how much she loves me and only me, that she just wants our simple life back etc, etc. So yeah, there's rebound. No doubt she'll start "sunsetting" by Thursday and Mr. Wonderful Rob will Mr. Last Week.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu