OT, I am really glad that you posted this. I've been attempting a response all this am and all I wanted to do was to tell GH that at some point enough is enough. But I found myself getting flustered and I'd walk away from the keyboard.

OTs post was great. I'm just going to add the following. You have a couple of days to pull yourself together before you leave for Ireland. You can do this. Go and have absolutely NO expectations. I think there may be some comfort in knowing that if she or OM make any attempt in contacting one another you will know it. Most cell phones don't have access to international calling unless it has been set previously. So she would already have had to do this, or he would. Or she'd be calling from the hotel which you would see the bill upon checkout. Secondly, OM probably is feeling a bit out of sorts (poor guy, boo hoo) that his GF is going away for a week with her H...so thus the little momento...the necklace. Something for her to have so she could think of him while they were separated. FYI, Targets here in Dallas close at 9 on Sundays and 10 the rest of the week...anyway, that's it...anymore of my thoughts and I'll be backsliding here...and we don't want that to happen.


love, laughter and friendship, Lisa